Showing posts with label Rejection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rejection. Show all posts

25 June 2012

A Professional Writer...

A professional writer is an amateur who didn't quit - Richard Bach.

How true this is.  There are things I've tried and given up very quickly, coming to the conclusion it wasn't for me.  Obviously I wasn't that compelled by the activity in the first place.  The writing equivalent are those who say 'Someday I'll write a book', or people who have three or four first chapters sitting on their hard drive and never progress them.

To be good at anything you have to work at it.  With the Olympics coming up I will no doubt marvel at the speed people can run, and how graceful and talented the gymnasts are etc.  I'll daydream how it would be to do those things, and push away the thought of the hours of practice and training required.

Writing is just the same.  To be any good at it we need to write, and keep on writing through the rejections, competitions not won, and manuscripts returned with (possibly) a compliments slip.

I look at some of my earlier writing and shudder.  How could I have thought it was so great?  Today I can see where it's weak, the places I told the story rather than showing, the clunky dialogue and - well you get the picture.

Some of them had a good idea at their heart, and those I've taken and worked on and improved.  A couple of them have since been published.

I am just as certain that in a few years I'll look back at the things I write today and will see how they can be improved.  That's the nature of the business.  We have to give ourselves permission not to be the greatest when we first start, but also not give up on ourselves, and keep on learning and practising.


23 April 2012

Skateboarding Lessons

Most days I try to go for a walk or a run.  As I live close to the sea my walks often take me to one of my local beaches.  Along the length of one beach is a wide grassed area where there is a children's play park with swings, climbing frames and slides.  Next to that is a skateboard area.  Most days this is full of older children and teenagers on skateboards, bikes and scooters, and I'm often amazed at the tricks and manoeuvres they're able to perform.  I suppose I shouldn't be surprised at how good they are, because they're there most days, and spend hours practising the jumps and manoeuvres.

Sometimes they don't get up enough speed for the ramp or miss a jump.  They pick up their skateboard, and do it again.  Each missed jump teaches them something new about speed and distance and angles.

Why is it then we feel such a failure when we don't get placed in a writing competition, or receive a rejection from an editor or publisher, or read something we've written and think it's rubbish?

It takes a lot of hours of practising our craft to improve our writing skills.  Each time something comes back from an editor or publisher we should look for a way to improve it, especially if we're fortunate enough to receive some feedback with the rejection.  We might not get skinned knees like the skateboarders, but dealing with rejection is hard.  We all know we should be objective about it, but that's difficult when you're reading the letter or scrawled comments on a slip of paper.

Ultimately, unless we want to give up, we have to handle the rejection (chocolate often helps!), and get on with practising our craft by more writing, more editing, and learning from each experience.  Time now to do that.